Making friends from China is a hard thing to do consider that you are not a mainlander but a BBC. For me, in my final year, making friends with them was a good moment but the higher point was that I became really good friends with them such as Tina, Shirely (阿姨) and Maggie (小朋友) I never expected to like one of them for a while esp when we are doing different course and dont see much of each other only the weekend. I also never expected that I would be close to two of them and lived with them when I moved to Birmignahm after I grad. When Tina was the first one to leave for China, it was bareable but for Amy to leave so soon afterwards after I moved to Birmingham and living with her. It broke my heart and made me think about moving back home. Luckily for my sister (Ying) and my brother would be still here. Knowing Amy for a year was one of my best time in the final year of uni as we shared many good times together esp the times when we lived together. Elaine left just before christmas but came back to uk for a while. Now she left back to China last night. Though I know here for a short period of time, we still had many funny moments together. The most important girl in my life that I met in final year was Ying (家姐). When I first met her, I didnt think that we would become really close and that I would consider as my older sister. Coming back from Germany on a business trip two weeks ago, my sister told me the news that I been dreading to hear that she would be leaving back to China in 3 weeks time. When i heard the news, my heart sudden broke. With Amy already left, my heart was already broken but for my sister to leave, it made my heart and spirit crush to hear that she would be leaving. To make it worse, I found out that I would be going to Germanz again for a business trip the day before she leaves which meant I couldnt see her off to the airport. I didnt see Amy off when she left as I had to work and I knew I couldnt do it esp she was the girl I liked for a while. Now I cant see my sister off to the airport, my heart was crushed for not be able to do that. When I come back from Germany, my sister wont be there to greet me which will leave a big hole in my heart. Knowing Ying has been just over a year and we had many fun times together, going to London, Oxford and Cardiff. Living with her made my life worthwhile when moving to Birmingham Without her, Amy and my brother, I wouldnt have consider to moved to Birmingham and get a job. Now with one of them leaving one by one, it making me wonder how long I can last without them esp my sister not being by myself supporting me anyone and comfort me when I´m sad. Now I´m off to Germany and I cant see her off to the airport and when I come back from my trip I woont be able to see her ever again which breaks my heart. 唐莹, 家姐 我会想念你. I´m so happy that I met you and consider you as my beloved sister. Wherever you are, I will always treasure you and you will always be in my heart. I love you, 家姐! |